WHAT
THEY ARE SAYING ABOUT US!
Crackow
Birth
Sarah,
It is so hard to put into words the magnitude of
appreciation I have towards you. Since having you as a doula for my
second birth, in comparison, I truly feel as though I did an injustice to my
first birth by not having a doula. There was a world of difference in
both birth experiences. Although my first birth was jaundice, but
healthy - I know now that I could have had a different birth experience
with all the knowledge you gave me. Having you and my husband
my side encouraged me, but you -specifically as a fellow woman, empowered
me. You gave me the confidence I needed to know that I could as I
desired so, without a doubt, deliver a baby unmedicated. How
awesome is that! That's just the way God intended it for me and
I am thankful that He put you in my life to help
me. Although, you were pregnant as well at the time, you knew all
kinds of techniques and methods to really help me to progress in
labor and comfort me during contractions. You also gave me
strength and encouragement to overcome all the obstacles we faced with the
doctor (thank you). You were so calm and comforting and made every
effort to allow me to have the best birth experience I could have had.
I will continue to sing your praises as I really recommend to any
pregnant woman - please, please, consider a doula. I really thought
I was prepared because I took the classes and read the books for my first birth
- but I truly was disillusioned. I know now that I don't have to have a
typical hospital birth with all kinds of interventions to deliver a healthy
baby.
Although I would love to give all the dramatic and not so
dramatic details of my birth experience to help urge potential clients to seek
doula services, I will refrain from doing so in letter format. However,
if you ever need me talk to others to share my story. You know I
would love it.
I hope you know that I think you are an exceptional
doula, but most of all you are a wonderful friend. Emma will always hear
good things about the special woman that helped here mommy on the amazing day
she was born.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart,
Zenaida
Housley
Birth
Dear Susan,
I just wanted to take a minute
and let you know how much I appreciate you and how wonderful were to my birth
experience as my doula.
I didn't have a doula for the
birth of my first child, and I remember feeling scared and not in control of my
labor and delivery. Before I delivered my first child, I thought I would
be able to do it on my own. I had read quite a bit of material and
thought I knew exactly what and how I wanted my labor to be. Once that I
was in labor, I quickly found myself doubting all the knowledge that I had
gained by listening to the nurses and doctors. I quickly found pitocin
hooked up to my arm, then my water being broken, and pain that I wasn't able to
manage due to my overall state of mind. Although I had a healthy baby, it
was not the labor that I had planned and imagined.
We are very fortunate to
have you to assist and coach me on the birth for our second child.
What a difference! I went in feeling more confident about wanting to manage my
labor and not let the doctors manage it for me. We again found ourselves
in a situation where the doctors were trying to convince me that my plan was
now harming my baby. You helped me to ask for time from the doctors to
let me try to progress "naturally" with labor for two hours and then
we would see where we were at. I don't know that I would have had the
sense or courage to negotiate the time, if you hadn't have been there. I
just felt secure with you there, and knew that you would help me to know if I
was really in trouble. When the pain became bad for me, you helped
me with techniques to find a way to manage it. I never knew how strong I
could be. You helped me to not fear the pain, like I know that I did in
my first labor. When I found a way to cope with it I realized that the
lack of fear helped me to manage the pain better.
Your interactions with the
hospital staff was greatly appreciated too. I really felt like the
nurses were thankful that you were right there looking after me, so that it
made their job easier and less stressful. I know that they
had confidence in you too, which again, reassured me that we could
manage this labor just fine. I think that by using a doula, hospital
staff and doctors have help and also know that the patient has an advocate, so
they can't scare them with information that isn't true. When I delivered
my first child, I didn't hold him immediately. They whisked him away to
take his vitals and cleaned him and then brought him to me. They didn't
offer to do anything different. With the birth of me second, I was asked
if I wanted to hold her immediately after she was born. I think the
hospital staff treated me better because they knew I had an advocate for
me. Being able to hold her immediately after I was born, was a
storybook moment, and because of you, it was possible.
Susan, I couldn't have done this
without you. I have a beautiful daughter that you helped to
bring into this world. I will never think of her birth and not
remember what an asset you were to have there for me. I wish that more
women understood what doulas are and how much better the labor experience is
with one. I know that I will continue to recommend you to everyone I
know!!
Thank you again!
With love,
Angela Housley
DeVidal
Birth
I have to say foremost that if I wouldn’t have had my doula
I probably would have gone crazy and ended up rushing to the hospital after the
second contraction. Sarah did more for me than I believe some family members
would have done. Sarah stayed with us over 80 hours throughout the labor and
delivery and was such a great support person to have around.
It was such a blessing to have someone who had been through
two deliveries of her own and knew what pains were to come, as well as the
ending delight of the whole event. Even though I didn’t have the completely
natural birth I had hoped for, Sarah continued to remind me that I was
empowered to make my own decisions whether it was natural or medicated and that
truly boosted my confidence as a woman.
When it came time for the labor to fully kick in Sarah was
with me almost 90% of the birth and was really dedicated to trying different
methods of speeding up my delivery and making the whole process as tolerable as
she could.
Every woman needs to have a supportive doula like her,
whether your having a home, water or hospital birth, a doula really takes the
stress off both mom and dad. In the future I hope to use her services for every
child I’m blessed to bring forth because she really was a wonderful person and
a true asset to my family.
Sincerely,
Charice
Townsend Birth
Sarah,
I always wanted to have a child and I knew that I would want
the best that I could give for him. This is why I looked into natural
(non-medicated) childbirths. I also wanted to experience childbirth for what
it was; a natural wonderful event that I would cherish. But I also knew that
it would be hard, very hard. In fact, almost every woman that I talked to
about my birth plans thought that I was crazy and that I would not be able to
do it with no medication. Well, I did it!!!
This was my first child and I really did not know what to
expect. I was scared. But Sarah, you helped me thru it all. I really
appreciated your knowledge and understanding of childbirth. You helped me to
fill in the blanks and help cement my decision to continue with my childbirth
the way I wanted, not the way people told me it should go.
You invited my husband and me into your home and helped me
on a special weekend meant for your own family to rejoice and be together.
This meant a lot to me. Thank you. That night when I went into the most intense
of contractions at the birth center you helped me stay focused and encouraged
that I could do it. Your soothing voice, focused attitude, comforting tone and
relaxed reassurance did so much for me I cannot fully express it in words. It
was a wonderful experience that I will always remember and treasure. And I am
grateful to you for your support.
Having natural childbirth at the birth center with a midwife
and having you as my doula were definitely the best decisions that I could have
ever made for me and my new baby boy.
With very much love and affection,
Kendra